The answer is it depends. Some judges will allow you to be present via telephone or video (more and more courts across the country are doing this) if you have a good reason to do so. I would speak to a local attorney and have them call over to the Court to ask the Court directly. Some jurisdictions require that you be physically present in Court for all hearings so it is better to contact a local attorney and the Court.
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You're throwing around a lot of assumptions--the main one being that the judge did anything she wasn't specifically empowered to do. An attorney will need to review your case to see what's going on and give you an assessment of the facts of your case and what your options moving forward are.
As far as leaving MA -- DOR can cause problems with your passport, and you should probably check to make sure there's no hold on your travel before buying tickets to go anywhere.
Representing a client in this sort of action while they are not present can make things much more difficult. Depending on your home country, it might be possible through reliance on mailing documents that might need to be signed (or emailing them), but it wouldn't be recommended. It could also be interpreted as an attempt to escape your obligations that could prejudice your case.
So long as the MA court has jurisdiction you can bring a claim or counterclaim in MA. If you are going to be traveling, you had better coordinate your calendar with your court dates. Don't be seduced by the myth of the teleconferenced hearing, many courts are simply not equipped and sometimes the judge simply won't allow it.When you are a party to litigation, you are bound by the court rules.
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