My ex sent me a letter requesting a check be sent to her directly to cover medical expenses on our child. She sent me three bills totaling $204.00 and two prescriptions totaling $60.00. The problem I have with sending her a check for half like she's requesting is she has only paid the dr.'s office $20.00 out of the $204.00 owed. I found this out by calling the pediatricians office. The bills date back to Dec. '08, Feb. '09, and then last week. Should I pay the dr.'s office directly? Should I send the Rx portion to her to the depository? If I send her the money, she won't pay the bill. The divorce papers state she has to provide proof of payment within 10 days, not bills.