This varies greatly between courts and may vary even between judges within courts. I can't specifically tell you the procedure in the Franklin County courts, but a Clerk could at least tell you whether there is a procedure for requesting settlement or mediation in place there. Many courts have court ordered mediation or domestic mediation but many others do not. If she has an attorney who you believe is causing undue delay, then I highly recommend you hire a lawyer to represent you who can make appropriate motions to move things along.
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