Child visitation can be a complex area. I would strongly recommend that you see an attorney to help you. The child support calculation is ruled by guidelines and calculations that are available through a variety of sources. Changes from the guidelines require additional explanations to the court.
You need to see an attorney to help you. I wouldn't go it alone. Good luck!
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The Court will not impute income to a parent for the purpose of calculating child support unless there is strong evidence that the imputation is in the best interest of the child. Since it is in your child's best interest that you be involved in her life, changing your job in order to exercise custody of your chils should not be held against you. The question is, are you deliberately going after a job that pays less or does the new job pay less because that is all that's available in the area? In order to avoid an imputation of the difference (your current pay and the new, lower pay), you will need to show that you made your best effort to find the best paying job for your skill set.
Instead of blaming the judicial officer for denying your earlier request, try to show them that you are trying to work withing the parameters of their decision and that you are simply trying to do what is best for your child.
This is an interesting and not uncommon situation. Were I you I would get a copy of the court transcript of the proceedings in which the judge indicated that you need to adjust your schedule to accomodate your child. This is no guarantee that the judge will nonetheless make the decision you want, but without it you run the risk of the court "not remembering" their earlier position and simply ruling against you. Even with the transcript there is no guarantee the judge will stick with their earlier thinking here, ut without it there is a much greater chance the judge won't. All that said, I certainly agree with Mr. Maguire's observation that more time with your child is paramount.
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