My wife is still receiving child support for my children although they have not lived with her since 2002. I cannot go to New York for court. What are my options?I pay over $800 in arrears child support every month. Monroe county in New York is adding $721 each month to what I owe. At this rate I won't pay this off in my lifetime. I am 66 at this time. I need to change the child support order for the county to stop charging me current support and adding it to the arrears. I cannot go to NY for court and would like to have a change of venue but the children are living on their own since 2005. One lives in NY and the other child lived with me since she was 15 in Sept. 2002.