An executor owes a fiduciary duty to the estate. And that means, among other things, that the executor cannot engage in self-dealing that is harmful to the interests of any of the beneficiaries of the estate. Unless there is no pecuniary value to the personal property, the executor cannot decide on her own whether to keep such property.
The fact that she purchased a $45,000 car may or may not indicate that she has taken from the estate money to which she is not entitled, but it may be enough to warrant your keeping your eyes open.
It may be necessary and advisable for you to petition for her removal as executor. And it may similarly be helpful to request an accounting in accordance with court rules.
You should hire counsel, because there are now a series of complex procedures in which you are likely to become involved.
Good luck to you.
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I agree with Attorney Haber. But has an estate been opened here or not? If not, then were all of the assets titled jointly with your sister? She is only ACTING as executor if she has been appointed as the executor by the probate court. Otherwise, she is acting in her individual capacity. That is significant because, if the assets were titled jointly in her name and your dad, the terms of the Will do not apply, strictly speaking, and your sister would have no fiduciary duties to you, in that case.
You can check to see if an estate has been filed, with the probate court in the county where your dad lived at the time of his death.
If an estate is open and you feel your sister is taking advantage, your recourse is through a petition or objection to the court.
As far as including or excluding beneficiaries from information as to what is happening, each state has laws dictating what the executor needs to provide to the beneficiaries. Again, this is only if an estate has been opened, however.
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