The parent is 93 years old and refuses to be put in a nursing home or have 24hours home care.
Neither a parent of an adult nor an adult child can be charged with abandonment unless there is some legal relationship - i.e., guardianship, etc. established through the courts. If the parent needs to be placed in a home, guardianship proceedings might be the best solution. Go see a lawyer who handles such matters.
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