It could be used but the weight given the evidence will be up to the judge. Generally the older a case is the less it will be considered by the court.
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Three years is not that old. The Florida evidence code genrally says that convicvictions generally can't be used after 10 years.
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The question is whether or not it is a conviction. Evidence of convictions can be introduced in court for up to ten years. It is up to the judge to decide whether or not it is relevant. However, a parent who is inducing the child to engage in shoplifting does not sound like a good parent.
However, if there was no conviction, using that arrest as character evidence may not be easy. You should consult with an attorney.
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