Well, the first time the teacher was sick (or so she said), what was the reasoning you were given for not attending the April meeting? Is this a private or public school? What was the exact issue your son had with her? How old is your son? Is your son special needs?
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If your son is autistic then he is likely on an individual educational program. The IEP team can be called together to address any issues your son is having in his program. His teacher is part of the team and would be asked to participate in the IEP team meeting. If that doesn't happen you have the right to file a complaint with the school, and if it is interfering with your son's IEP there are other steps you can take. You should consult an educational lawyer who deals with special education issues. She/he will be able to guide you on addressing the needs of your child with the school and how to raise issues of compliance with federal and state special education law.
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