Generally not. Court will prefer to keep family in same state for purposes of custody and visitation issues. You should bring your custody and visitation issues up immediately with the family law attorney you hire.
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With all due respect to the previous answer, Wa. laws are different from the laws in Ca. In Wa. State we have a relocation statute that specifies if a custodial parent moves out of state, he/she must first give notice to the non-custodial parent to give him/her the opportunity to object. Under our law, relocation is presumed to be in the best interest of the child absent evidence otherwise proffered by the non-custodial parent. Once an objection is filed, a trial is held on a shortened time to review the statutory criteria for the relocation. The court then uses a balancing test favoring the presumption of the mover if the statutory criteria are met and the move is in the best interests of the child.
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Given the mother's stated intent of moving and your desire to be physically close to your children, you should work very hard at be declared the custodial parent of the children now. Then, the children stay with you when the mother moves.
If you have not been the primary caretaker of the children in the past, that should not be the reason to deny you custody of the children now if being with you is in the best interest of the children.
You should review your specific facts with your attorney to see your legal options.
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