It is important to consult with an attorney licensed to practice in South Carolina. However, I can understand your frustration. The sex offender laws here in Ga are very tough. It creates tremendous hardships. Here in GA, certainly a 14 year old can be charged as an adult and be required to register. It may help for your boyfriend to contact an attorney and see if he may have any habeas corpus rights regarding his prior case. An attorney may be able to let you know if you have any chance at all. Don't just suffer without knowing.