I'm 17 and I'm wondering if I can date someone who is 19 or 20 . Is it OK to kiss and hold hands? Is it OK to have sex?. I don't want to get him in any trouble. Thank you
It is illegal for anyone in CA to have sex with minor under the age of 18.
SAN DIEGO CRIMINAL DEFENSE ATTORNEY--20 years experience
It is not illegal to hold hands, go to a movie or hang out. However minors CANNOT engage in any sort of sexual conduct, which includes no exchange of nude photos, no sex texting, no touching of intimate body parts, no anal intercourse and no ass grabbing. As my friend Jay Finnecy often says, what is the point of dating is there can be no sex?
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No sex. Kissing depends on where. You can hold hands.
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