First of all, this is a criminal law problem and you need to consult a criminal attorney or the public defender for advice. However, you might try calling the District Attorney and explaining your situation. The District Attorney's role is to protect you and the rest of the public from an abuser. If your husband does not get help it is likely his abuse will become worse. There are agencies to help battered wives in San Bernardino County CA. Call the Family Court Services Office in the Superior Court and ask for a referral to a battered wives assistance program. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE to find specific resources in your area.