Since you are the victim in the criminal case from what it sounds like you may call the District Attorney's office and speak with the Assistant District Attorney or Victim Witness Advocate handling your case about any concerns you have. They will be able to better answer your questions.
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As a victim in this case you have certain rights. If you fail to show for trial, the matter could be dismissed. If you want the protection of the court and the assistance of the district attorney, contact the DA's office ASAP and go and speak to the Victim-Witness person. Your interest and participation are critical.
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First, I am so sorry to read of this situation.
It has to be rough.
Second, talk to the prosecution team assigned to the case. They will give you the guidance you seek.
In no way am I offering you legal advice, and in no way has my comment created an attorney-client relationship. You are not to rely upon my note above in any way, but insted need to sit down with counsel and share all relevant facts before receiving fully-informed legal advice. If you want to be completely sure of your rights, you must sit down with an experienced criminal defense attorney to be fully aware of your rights.