I was ordered to pay 2075 per month in child support for 3 children. I'm active duty military and the amount that was ordered to be paid exceeds limitations. Currently only 1300 is with held from my pay. Not until recently when trying to apply for a loan did I learn that I had amost 17000 in back child support. Obviously the amount that was ordered is above my means and the amount of back support is only going to grow..please help.