Assuming his reluctance is not because of abuse and/or neglect, NY family courts are not too sympathetic to children refusing to see their non custodial parent. You should also realize that as custodial parent you can be charged with interference with parenting rights (visitation) and this can lead to loss of custody and a switch as to who pays child support.
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