I would suggest you call Ben Stevens. He is a great guy and will help you out. Phone: (864) 598-9172 Good luck.
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Unfortunately the choice is not entirely his to make no matter his age until he is emancipated at the age of 18. Further, this is not a situation where he is choosing between two parents in which case his preference would be a factor for a court to consider but not the sole determinative factor. In this situation, he is not your biological child so you are at a disadvantage. Your best bet is to convince the mother to give you custody of the child. If she will an attorney to help you make the custody transfer "official" through the family court. Another route would be to contact DSS to see if they will intervene to take custody and place the child with you. However, this approach has its problems and there is no guarantee that the court place the child with you. Also, this placement would only be temporary. Part of what DSS tries to do is to reunite the parent with the child If the parent successfully follows DSS's plan for reunification.
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