A guy "Bob" I dated over a year ago and I both hang out at the same pub some weekends, we live in a small town. When I see Bob; he comes up to me and makes rude comments. I usually walk away and ignore him. I have heard of many false accusations about me as well. Recently, I started dating his friend "Joe" whom I have known for years, and Bob was not happy out it. Bob told Joe not to see me anymore. Then Bob saw Joe and I together and was not happy. Joe asked me to not put my arm around him to not upset Bob. I walked away and Bob came up to me very close in my face and started saying mean things, basically yelling. I reacted and pushed Bob on the chest to get him away from me. Bob then ran outside and called the cops and pressed charges for assault. I have an arraingment Monday, help!