First, you should contact an attorney and I would be happy to assist you with both cases. I have handled numerous similar matters in Norwalk and believe that I could easily get you into a program so that we can proceed to get the charges dismissed. They will most likely find out about both cases so you would be able to use one attorney for both. Please contact me tomorrow to discuss at firstname.lastname@example.org or call me at 203-377-4111.
Do not send the letter to the police yet. You will not need to go to trial on these types of charges...I am very positive I can assist you.
A "a deep letter to the cop" is useless, if not counter-productive. What you need is a lawyer to help you with both matters.
The CT and your county bar associations can assist with referrals.
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