I was married to a lady for 25 years. She had a will before we were married. Is it still binding. Everything we have (which is not a lot) is in both our names. We failed to make a will. She passed away. The will she had left everything to her children. We had discussed everything with our children and they know we wanted each other to have our home and few assets. Then everything would be split four ways. Her will states everything goes to her children? Do I now lose everything.