My child is calling another person Dad that she only knew several months. I've had many visits denied and I feel I am being pushed out of the picture.
The first thing you need to do is ensure that you are physically attempting your visits. If the court orders say to pick the kids up at her house on Friday and 6:00 pm, then you need to ring her doorbell at that time. This is true even if she said she will not let you have the kids, will not be home, will call the police, or whatever other excuse she may give. You cannot enforce your visitation times if you are not physically attempting to pick them up. I would also suggest you take someone with you who will be willing to come to court and testify that you were at the correct location and the right time. You should hire a lawyer to help you enforce your rights. They can also discuss your options and help decide if you need to modify the visitation or custody arrangements. Those are the areas where parental alienation can come into play. But that is a complex topic and can require expensive experts to testify. I would suggest talking to a lawyer to help enforce your rights as well as covering your other options.
There really isn't any specialization for parental alienation. But our experienced members deal with the issue all the time. You have to start with enforcing access provisions. That is the first line of defense, access. It gives you a chance to fight the process. Next start the child in counseling. Then we go from there. Find an experienced family lawyer there. Qualify them when you talk to them about their knowledge and experience in the subject,
George is right. You probably need to hire a competent attorney asap to enforce your visitation. In Boerne I'd call attorney David Parent.
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