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Are there grounds for me to be charged with solicitation of a minor, or any other crime?

Minneapolis, MN |

I am a a 17 year old boy. Until recently, I had been posing as an adult on an adult dating site. It was wrong I know and I have stopped. I was sent a sexual message by a profile that showed an female aged 22. I responded with a sexual message. After a while, this "female" gave me the password to "her" account. After a day passed, this person told me that they were in fact an underaged boy as well. I immediately terminated the account and communication with this person. In hindsight, I see the clues that this person was lying about who they were, but given that as soon as they told me they were a minor I terminated communication, am I guilty of a crime?

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To be guilty of a crime, generally, the State needs to prove beyond a reasonable doubt mens rea (evil intent) and actus rea (evil action). Here, it seems like you did not have an evil intent based on these limited facts. Be careful on the internet. Good luck.

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It is difficult to answer questions like this because generally there is more to the story than is being presented initially. The cases of solicitation of a minor for sexual purposes I have seen have generally culminated in a personal meeting, or an attempt at a personal meeting, that follows up on prior communications of a sexual nature. Police do often pose as underage persons interested in sex, online, in order to catch people interested in sex with underage persons. More important than worrying about what might happen (beyond your control), are 1) consider avoiding the conduct that led to this trouble, in the future; 2) know what to do if contacted by police - assert you rights to silence and an attorney during questioning; and 3) be prepared for searches of everything you own and are associated with. This sounds easier than it is to do - but these are vitally important to protect yourself from police methods and errors. Also, avoid posting details online. You may want to follow up with an in-person consultation with a criminal defense lawyer.


It doesn't sound like a crime to me, but it would be in your best interest to no longer post any more details of the incident online.