I ask this because my ex just filed this claiming to be threatened by me without much evidence of anything. There is one thing which she submitted to the court and that's an email I sent to her approximately 5 or 6 months ago in which I wrote her that i'll cut of her tongue if she continues to defame me. Indeed, she has been going around telling lies about me to my friends and I was angry, so I made more of a metaphorical comment to her to get what I am trying to tell her.
She basically waits for several months to file this and I have received lots of emails from her all these months where she initiated contact, asked me to call her, she even said that she loves me by calling me sweet names. I have my phone bill to show that she sent me approximately 55 text messages after I sent herthat email, not counting several of her phone calls to my cellphone. So I don't understand the basis of filing this against me if restraining order has to do with immediate fear. Do you think these are good evidences to provide to refute her. In your professional opinions, can someone claim fear if they continue to be in a mutual contact with me like that by not showing any fear. She only provided that one email from my side to claim her fear. Thank you in advance for taking time to comment.