Recently my grandmother fell ill. I came back to the states to take care of her as no one else could, and I didn't want her in a home. One evening her home was broken into and my girlfriend/and my belongings were stolen. We kept them all in the front of the house. Nonetheless She passed and I had to not only deal with that, but also insurance as luckily she had a homeowners policy. I have since bought replacements of a lot of the items, and submitted receipts. The insurance paid out the claim in the name of her estate. She has no estate. Just a reverse mortgaged house, and bills (lots of them) How do I get the money owed to me. Bank won't take the check, I need to get home and back to work. I don't want my money to go towards her debts and deadbeat kids..