It is difficult to say for sure. One thing you can try to do in the meantime is a FOIA request to the State Department to see if you can find out the exact reason for the refusal. If they do charge you with fraud later down the road, you will need a waiver and a qualifying relative (U.S. citizen or LPR parent or spouse), which you don't appear to have at this time. Talk to an immigration lawyer now who can look at your case in more detail and give you a better idea of your options.
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You need to provide more detailed information. Misstating the facts on an application is a violation if law and can affect your ability to get a visa. Do consult with an experienced immigration lawyer with knowledge if US immigration law.
It depends on what the laws are when your priority date finally becomes current. No one can predict what the laws will be 10 + years from now.
The movement of priority dates cannot be predicted.
For the latest visa bulletin see http://www.engnishimura.com/priority-dates/current
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