Although this isn't an immigration question and you should talk to an unemployment lawyer ... it is my understanding that you can not get unemployment if you don't have a work permit ... one requirement for unemployment is that you are ready-willing-and-ABLE to work and have been making applications for work.
As for food stamps, I think you need to be lawfully in the US .. again, I'm not certain.
BUT,the good news is that the US citizen children may qualify for government welfare/food benefits.
Go talk to someone at a local Legal Aid office.
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