Sorry for your troubles. Maybe you should start looking for some free counseling. Then look for local attorneys that accept payments.
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As for hiring an attorney, open the phone book and start calling attorneys. See if someone will take your case pro bono, or accept extended payment plans. If no attorney's will help you, you will want to go to the website for the clerk of courts, there should be some self help information that can get you started. However you are likely going to have to visit the courthouse to file the papers.
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Call the SC Bar and see if there are any pro bono legal organizations that may be willing to help you.
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