File a police complaint and/or file a complaint with the School Board.
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Very troubling. You can take the following actions:
1. File a complaint with the local police department.
2. File a grievance with the school board and administration using their policies and procedures. Follow the rules carefully, as they can be strictly enforced.
3. If teachers' aides are certified in New York, file a complaint against her at the appropriate licensing board.
4. Contact an education attorney utilizing the Find a Lawyer tab on this page. They will put a stop to this in a hurry. They will also determine if you have a cause of action against the school, the aide or both.
It sounds as if you have been ignored. Taking the actions listed above will end this behavior, I assure you.
you need to hire counsel and file a complain with the school board at this point i am not sure that the police will take this complaint. You also might want to talk to our local legislator or assembly person about this and see if they can help