I have been married for less than 3 weeks.. My husband expressed multiple times that he wanted to leave. Several days ago, he said he was through with the marriage and didn't want to be in it anymore. He took his belongings and left, after the police were called on both sides - He wanted an escort, family called because he was physical. No complaints were filed. He was told that if he came back, it would be considered trespassing and he would be arrested(we were living under family's roof). I suspect he is in another state but I can't be certain of his residency.
Do we have to have a 12 month period of separation before either of us are allowed to file? Will I have to personally find and contact him?He has contacted me saying he believes there's a ground for an annulment. I take a prescribed anti-anxiety medication (Ativan), which he was fully aware of and was not concealed. He is saying it could go under Mental Incapacity due to the influence of drugs. I have been taking the medication for approximately one year, with tapering the doses for the last several months. Is this a possibility?
As long as you have lived in the State of Illinois for more than 90 days, you have met the residency requirements to file for divorce. Your bigger problem will be how to serve your husband if you do not know where he is. Please retain an experienced attorney ASAP for more detailed advice and direction.
You can file for divorce immediately if you have grounds, and you can serve him by publication.
you could probably get an annulment. or a divorce on mental cruelty. go see a divorce lawyer now. if you know where his relatives are, you could try to have him handed court papers there.
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