Susan Jayne Shulenberger

Susan Shulenberger was kind, patient, understanding, and professional though my process. She was a wise and knowledgeable guide through the Collaborative Divorce process and helped me decide whether that was the right approach for our family. She drew from her extensive experience to come up with creative solutions to issues as they arose. She was mindful of controlling costs and came up with efficient ways for us to work through our parenting plan and finances. She made time for me when I needed it and advised me of things I needed to be aware of. She was kind and sharp and made sure the outcome was child-centered and workable for everyone; with Susan I felt protected, supported, and like I had a strong advocate during what was an extremely difficult time. This may sound weird, but Susan made divorce meetings much more enjoyable, and made it feel like there was a light at the end of the tunnel.

I am beyond grateful for Susan. Through this whole process she was available, had open communication throughout every step of my divorce, helped educate me and was patient when I didn’t understand something, and was incredibly eptathetic and understanding towards me. I truly feel like she helped me achieve the best possible outcome and for that I am so thankful.

I was so impressed by and grateful for Susan’s availability and responsiveness throughout my time working with her. She is incredibly smart, knowledgeable in her field and tough. Her counsel, support and coaching made all the difference and were absolutely invaluable. I’m so glad I had her in my court.

Susan and I met quite a while ago. And while that hints at the arduous process my divorce became, she was there, helping me understand, guiding me through the legal process, but also bringing experience to bear in relationships and breakups. Its a tough time regardless, particularly when the behavior of your former spouse is hard to interpret. Susan was there. Constant consideration not just of the divorce, but of future ongoing relationships, what it take to get this behind you, but not at the cost of your dignity, fatherhood, or an untenable financial situation. Susan is always thinking a few steps ahead. When nothing seems to make sense in an ambiguous and emotionally driven world, Susan provides clarity, reason, and calm. Oh and she is sharp as hell on settlements and getting a deal that works. Works for both parties, I should say. While my case ended up at trial and that was the last resort anyone wanted to pursue, I knew exactly what was going on, why trial was the solution, and have no regrets every step of the way. Things became more complex than anyone expected or wanted. But I knew why these steps were being taken, and felt comfort and pride in that, which is weird to say given the circumstance. We had a great rapport from the beginning, she was a friend and confidant beyond my attorney. She showed passion, was conscientious of what I was going through, and patient. We ended up in court because we wanted to, given the circumstances dealt. I regret none of it, even if I never anticipated that. The outcome was better than I hoped for. I received more than I asked, and I could not be happier. We went through the process. Susan did things the right way. I never felt ill prepared nor did I worry that what actions opposing counsel might pursue, because we were organized and thoughtful every step. Susan was and is tremendous. She's my trusted legal advisor, but she's also a friend who believed in me. Words can't describe what Susan did for me, my kids, and my family. I'd recommend her to anyone.

Susan has been a remarkable lawyer thus far. My divorce has yet to be finalized, my future ex and I elected to take a non-traditional route that is neither litigious nor as formalized as collaborative. Susan's willingness to help me deal with the difficulties this poses has been outstanding. And she does it in a way that doesn't increase her billable hours: i.e., "I could help you with this, but if you were to use resource xxx it would be cheaper or free." For as "friendly" as my divorce is, it is somewhat complicated. There are no children, but it's a long term marriage. But there are assets, health issues and it is complicated by one of the spouses now living outside of the US. It's a lot to manage, and Susan stays on top of it. I always get quick responses from her via email; she sets my expectations realistically; she is extremely flexible - either being the "tiger" in the meetings for me, when I am unable to be strong, or supporting me as I discover how to be strong and look after myself. And she keeps me apprised of my monthly bill, and what to anticipate as events continue to unfold. Hands down the best attorney choice I could have made.