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Our goal at Ellis Family Law is to provide superior legal counsel in a nurturing atmosphere where each client is treated with the care and respect they deserve. We represent ALL families, regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation or identity.  Ellis Family Law prides itself on a job well done, and we feel that many heads are better than one. Each attorney in the firm was specially chosen for their individual talent.  We assign the appropriate member of the team to your case to ensure a tailored approach, as we understand that everyone has very different legal needs and personalities.


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Practice areas


  1. Family: 34%
    14 years
  2. Divorce: 33%
    14 years
  3. Estate Planning: 33%
    14 years



Fixed (sometimes), Retainer (sometimes)

Payment types:

Cash, Check, Credit card

Attorney endorsements

5 total 

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    Gray Ellis and his firm are highly professional and very capable handling any family law issues like divorce, alimony, custody and division of marital property. I have practice Family Law in Durham for thirty years and have had many cases where the opposing party has been represented by Gray and his firm. They are dedicated to the interests of their clients but seek to minimize aggravation and bitterness while reaching a fair solution. He and his lawyers are extremely capable in trial when settlement cannot be reached. This firm has an excellent reputation in the legal community and its clients speak well of their experiences with the attorneys and support personnel of Ellis Family Law.


    Thomas Eagen Family Attorney
    Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

  • Robert Paul Jenkins

    Gray is a very knowledgeable and detailed family law attorney. He always stays up to date (if not ahead) of the latest trends, case law and research in the family law practice. I often call upon Gray for his advice and guidance when dealing with issues I may be uncertain of or am seeking confirmation about a certain issue I am dealing with. Without hesitation I have referred and will continue to refer cases to Gray and his firm.


    Robert Jenkins Family Attorney
    Relationship: Worked together on matter

Contact info

P.O.Box 603
Durham, NC, 27702


We have not found any instances of professional misconduct for this lawyer.
Avvo contributions
Legal answers
Award nameGrantorDate granted
Best AttorneysIndy Weekly2015
Best AttorneysDurham Magazine2015
Best AttorneysDurham Magazine2014
Rising StarSuper Lawyers2012
Rising StarSuper Lawyers2011
Star SearchSuper Lawyers2010
Board Certified Specialist - Family LawNorth Carolina State Bar Board of Legal Specialization2007
Work experience
TitleCompany nameDuration
OwnerEllis Family Law, PLLC2008 - Present
Association namePosition nameDuration
North Carolina Bar AssociationMember2002 - Present
Durham County Bar AssociationMember2002 - Present
North Carolina Academy of Trial LawyersMember2002 - Present
North Carolina Bar Association, Family Law SectionChairN/A
Legal cases
Case nameOutcome
Degn v. Degnsole custody with support and unequal division of assets in my clients favor
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Publication nameTitleDate
North Carolina Bar Association publicationChild Support2011
School nameMajorDegreeGraduated
North Carolina Central University School of LawLawJD - Juris Doctor2001
North Carolina State UniversityPolitical ScienceBA - Bachelor of ArtsN/A
Speaking engagements
Conference nameTitleDate
N.C. Board of Legal SpecialistSame Sex Divorce Issues2015
NBI CLETemporary Hearings2012
NBI CLECommencing Family Law Actions2011
Law Office ManagementNCC School Of Law2009
Impacts of Divorce on FamiliesUnitarian Universalist Church2008
Self HelpDivorce Clinic2002
ClinicEquitable Distribution2002