unethical. dirty fighter. advised me to have my ex-wife's order to appear in court (for reduction of support) sent to my address 'by mistake and then to give her the paper work 3 days before the court date so that she wouldn't have time to prepare.' He said 'everyone does it.' He showed up to court ...2-1/2 hours late. My ex-wife was paying her lawyer for those hours. It's a few years later and I still feel sick about agreeing to be a scumbag. I didn't get the reduction in support either.