Struggling to get all information within the character guidelines. See additional information above. This isn't okay to be done to our son and has caused damage to his toe to date, and this occurred in June 2013. There are other ongoing issues that the girlfriend states she filed for legal guardianship, says that my son deserves a better mother and encourages my son to call her mom. My son comes home after visitation very confused and has resulted to hitting me and saying, "you no my mama." The lengths of sabotage being done to me and my son and our relationship is really crossing lines. I also don't get told about appointments when we share legal custody, yet the g/f is given permission to attend instead. Can't something be done to foster my relationship as the only mother and my relationship with my son? How is this okay?