We were recently in court in Feb 2013. We tried mediation and spent 6 hours just for him to back out at the signing of the "agreement". After going to court (the judge ended up denying my move to Texas as she said my son is too young to move from his bio dad being they are just building their relationship) it took over 2 weeks to draft the court order as he kept being extremely difficult and changing his mind every other day. As much as I would like to go to court to get it in writing about him not being able to cut his hair, it unfortunately wouldn't do anything but cause more stress on me as I am dealing with the most immature "adult" out there. Thanks for your help!