Thank you very much for your advice and the links which will be very helpful. I have completed PACT a long time ago as well as additional parenting classes including those that were not mandatory. The main reason why the father wants physical custody and take our child away from me to live in Nevada is so that he pays less or no support at all. I just need to prepare realy well, beacuse I know he's going to play dirty, and it won't be the first time. Unfortunately I cannot afford an attorney.