Right, that is what makes sense to everyone in my family. How do we prove it? I have the piece, can DNA answer the questions? What about the fact that I hired an attorney and she strung me along for eight months, no answers to my questions, as far as I can tell the records were just now trickling in according to the owner of the firm when I called and found out my attorney without notifying me. I suspect foul play here too, the drs involved probably play golf or fish here in Florida and I was strung along and I want to know what I can do if they screwed me out of my time with the SOL, I pulled the piece out f me in Sept 11, the surgery was 2010. Any comments would be most accepted and appreciated. Bless all of you for your time.
I sent you all the gory details as a reply to the email I received from you c/o Avvo. Did you read it? Let me know if you want me to attach the picture of the "piece" and I have the operative reports and a journal of a 7 month nightmare of pain, no sex with husband because I can walk without stabbing pains in my left groin, left buttock and pelvic are just above my clitoris under the pelvic bone, Ill feel stinging and cutting type sensations here and there even without sex, he is turned off by me now, the broke me down there and my desire even. My husband and I were active sexually every other day for years, now its been months and its taking its toil on my marriage. He acts depressed now, we don't laugh at movies, I can share the huge yard work or garden. I used to walk 2 to 3 miles three times a week, now I can hardly walk to the bathroom without my non -narcotic pain medication that gives me terrible headaches and quizzies. Then, I hire a recommened, fire me up about the case in the beginning, just to wait till time almost ran out to drop the case after the attorney he assigned quit and never even told. How am I suppose to be happy about any of that? I am just supposed to let everyone just screw up and walk away, while my husband, my family and I live with the results. I have tried to get many attornies on the case, since they dropped me first of last week, no one is calling me or biting. Can you recommend a Florida attorney that can see between the negligent lines and clouds someone is trying to sabatoge my SOL and my rights and I am just a poor girl left to deal with it. I am dealing with it. I am arguing with my sliding scale, government paid doctor who wants me to drop it all and realize I have Osteoarthritis and hemmoroids. What about the evidence? She does not even address that when I try to. She tells me there is nothing she can do about that, unless I get a life threatening injury that is visable. Well, I call that sharp piece of pretty sturdy surgial looking plastic that obviously and honestly migrated down and out of my body, through who what till it reached my groin area where I experience most of my stabbing, then out of my vaginal wall and that is when the excuriating stinging started, believe me, I did not want to pull anything like that out of me, I had to get some relief, if I had tried to walk, it would have done more damage and caused more pain, it was a relief to tug it out with very little resistance, some blood. I was in shock as was my husband, needless to say, we did not finish what we were about to do. That's the rest of the story, see if you received my response in an email and let me know. Honestly, I am naive about all of this and I do think I should continue writing my details on this site. Is it secure? I mean if my former attorney was in cohoots with the adverse party and they see me on here could it come back to hurt me? Thank you for your time and heart even if you don't want my case. At least I can share my experience, strength and hopes with others going through exactly what I am and I feel all alone in this. My husband, bless his heart, is borderline autistic over this, he used to be happy and now he has created a man cave and stays in it all the time. I sleep alone now because of the temptation I guess and because the damage is done. What now? I don't even know what is going with my SOL, that so called professional attorney will not even send me my file, he sent me the evidence and, I beleive it has been tampered with, unless my fluids got sticky on one in, like ahesive or something. What can I do there, I am ready to sue everybody, and that is just not my style. I never even would have thought about suing had these doctors showed me some respect and tried to fix whatever is broken or even if it was not related to the sling or mesh, no ones involved even cared, they just wanted money. That sickens me. How many others are they going to do the same surgery on and desert those poor souls when they come back with fear and scepticism as I did to give those greedy ass doctors a chance b