There is much legislation these days prioritizing domestic violence above all other personal misconduct. Case outcomes can be altered by mere references to domestic violence. These are popular allegations being made against the target partner in court cases around the country. No proof is necessary for any of these. Genders can be exchanged as these allegations flow both ways.
Domination Allegations
"controlling over me"
"his behavior began to escalate"
"one occasion of physical abuse and one occasion of sexual abuse"
"he slapped me, pulled my hair, forced my head into his crotch"
"forced me to perform oral sex"
"threw a drink in my face"
"threw me on the ground and stepped on my chest and neck"
"he is in cahoots with the local police precinct where he could influence police decisions about arrests"
"threw me against the wall and punched me with a closed fist"
Non-Support Allegations
"the father does not support the child at all"
not for "medical costs and clothes"
not for "doctor visits and co-payments"
not "diapers and toiletries
not car seat and cribs
mother "had the audacity to ... ask him when his unemployment was going to end"
Parenting Allegations
-a fight was for "a couple of days" because the father "basically" accused the mother "of not wanting to take care" of the daughter
-that the father threatenend to beat his two year old daughter
-when the child cried, father would ask "What did mommy do to you? ... Bad mommy."
Absconding with the Child Allegations
"he said he will leave with the child"
Self Serving Allegations
-going to safe houses to discuss "psychological violence" for obtaining advice on how to have bags prepared for an exodus from the home to a shelter
-seek counsel for an order of protection
-the mother did not leave the father because she was "too humiliated to tell anyone"
-the child suffers from PTSD because of the abuse
-had to repeatedly voluntarily admit the child to a psychiatric ward for treatment of PTSD
Humiliation and Threat Allegations
-saw him hold a gun
-saw him smoke pot
-called the mother a "slut."
-Mother said that father said "... it only takes a couple hundred bucks to kill someone."
-"You'll see what happens to you."
-"I felt very threatened by his tone and his demeanor."
-"I wish I would have hit you."
-"he came home with alcohol on his breath"
-father said to the child, "shut up or I'm going to beat you."
Jealousy Allegations
-getting upset whenever mother came home by a ride
-after the superintendent fixed something in the apartment unit, the father was "set off" in gails of accusations "How dare you talk to him" and misconduct
-The mother asserted that the father left only one mark on the mother
-"I'll shoot him. Watch. ... I've been locked up before."
Case Specific Allegations
-father was abusing the girl by making her walk
-mother reacted to the father's conduct by saying "... I didn't appreciate it."
-father was abusing the child by feeding the child baby food
-father kicked the puppy/kitten
-father did nothing about the heat
-father did not fix the broken furniture
-father damaged the automobile and did not fix it
Sexual Abuse of the Child Allegations
-father bathed the child "inappropriately"
-father showered with the child
-father was in bed with the child
-father used foul language with the child
One can expect a court to say: "As to domestic violence, the mother testified credibly and convincingly of serious ongoing and persistent physical, mental and emotional abuse by the Petitioner against her and even on occasion against the child.
