JOINT CUSTODY - What is in the Best Interests of the Child?
"What is joint custody?" is one of the most frequently asked questions that I hear as a family lawyer. Joint custody or "shared parenting", as it is also called, is a legal concept that may be easy to define, but in practice, and in the courtroom, it is interpreted in various ways. Complicating matters is the fact that joint custody is defined differently in most states. In most states, including New York, custody of a child is defined in terms of physical custody (which parent the child lives with) and legal custody (also known as decision making, which dictates which parent has the authority to make decisions about the child). Custody can be awarded to one parent in the case of sole custody, or it can be awarded to both parents in the case of joint custody.
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Parents with joint legal custody typically agree to consult with each other and reach agreement on important issues affecting the child, including medical, legal, academic, religious, and safety issues. Joint legal custody ensures that both parents have an active role in guiding the child and making decisions that affect the child's welfare. Parents with joint physical and legal custody must cooperate in parenting decisions on a daily basis. They must communicate with each other with regard to all of the details necessary to facilitate the children moving from one household to another. Generally speaking, most judges and parents would agree that it is better for children to be raised by both parents. In many states, a Judge can order joint custody, even when one parent objects to the arrangement. In New York, however, joint custody is ordered only if both parents consent, i.e. reach an amicable settlement on the issue of custody.