Would like to cancel a Modification of Custody and Visitation

Asked almost 3 years ago - Brewster, NY

I submitted an order of Modification for Custody and Visitation. But my ex-husband goes to great lengths to hide and deny the issues that led to this filing. He is highly contentioius and abusive. I feel that being in court with him does me and my daughter more harm then the issues that drove me to file. At this point I feel she is better off with me being out of court because her father takes it out on her as well as me. Can I go to the next court appearance and request that the case be closed? At least at this point he has started following certain court orders previously imposed.

Attorney answers (2)

  1. Mary Katherine Brown


    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . Yes, you can withdraw your petition. Some courts will allow you to withdraw by stipulation prior to your scheduled hearing date, others will require you to appear and explain why you are withdrawing you petition. Considering your ex-husband is "highly contentious and abusive", it may not be in your daughter's best interests to for him to share custody. The best plan would be for you to consult with a local attorney before you decide what to do about your pending petition. Good luck!

    Ms. Brown may be reached at 718-878-6886 during regular business hours, or anytime by email at: marykatherinebrown@... more
  2. Hayley R. Greenberg

    Contributor Level 16

    Answered . I am sorry to hear about your situation. You can withdraw it.

    You should contact an attorney to discuss your questions as additional information would be helpful.

    Our firm has many years of experience in the family law field.

    I wish you the best of luck.

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