Yes, if the Oregon Protective Stalking Order says no contact, then letters and phone contact would be a violation of that order. Restraining Order violations can be prosecuted even if the alleged victim no longer wants there to be a protective order. After the order is in place, it no longer matters is if the contact is unwelcome, or would subject a reasonable person to fear. All that matters is that he is violating a court order which he has been given notice of. In fact, phone calls and letters would make it very easy for a DA to prove that he contacted the victim.
Your relative needs to consult with an attorney in Oregon. Perhaps, the order can be contested and dismissed. If the victim would agree to dismiss the order, the attorney could also communicate with her to protect your relative from a violation.
Don't write any more about this issue on this site because this is a public forum where the posts can potentially be traced back to a party by a creative DA. Instead, save the rest of the details for a private and confidential consultation with an attorney.
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Please turn off your CAPS LOCK. It's like you're screaming at everyone, which I'm sure you don't intend. Thank you.
No contact means no contact, in whatever state. It's a bit hard to follow the rest of this narrative (please see this Guide: www.avvo.com/legal-guides/ugc/five-tips-for-how-to-ask-for-legal-advice-on-avvocom ). For more information on how these orders work, please see this page: http://www.northwestlawoffice.com/ro.html
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