My ex was awarded a few joint credit accts during our divorce in '07, I am now receiving collection calls for those accts - all I want, is to have those accts either completely transferred into only his name & SS# or have him ordered to give me "in full" the total dollar amt owed in the accts or sign over personal possessions to me that total the dollar amt owed, so I can sell to pay off the accts - can this be done in arbitration or only by suing in court?