You do not need a divorce, you need an annulment. A man who is married to someone does not have legal capacity to marry someone else without divorcing his first spouse. But you still have to provide proof of the prior existing marriage to a judge. If your husband never divorced his first spouse, a judge can sign a decree confirming that you were never legally married to him. It's as though your marriage to him never existed. If you cannot find him, he can be served by publication notice. You must clear this up before you can marry anyone else. This can also cause a lot of trouble in dividing your estate after your death. Talk to a lawyer in your area, or contact your area office for Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma to see if you qualify for their services.
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