My grandfather (83) is legally disabled and has a ton of medical issues. My grandmother (75) is dependant financially on my grandpa. He drives but shouldn't and she never learned. They currently live in a trailer in their driveway because their 3bdrm house is so full of junk and clutter that it is literally a fire and safety hazard. There are aisles through part of the house. I currently live in AL. My mother lives in WA but my grandparents refuse to allow the family to clean their house. The refuse to go to a retirement community. They don't take their medecine like they should. They are financially messed up with debt. Most recently he has been keeping a .357 Mag gun loaded with him. He has made lists of things to do and people to see. Uncle is executor of the estate but lives in AK.