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Who should be the POA?

My foster sister has a wrongful death suit against a hospital from her husband's death. Her children are trying to make it look like she is crazy. My foster sister spoke to the atty and he said that her son should stay the POA. The money that came in from his life insurance was taken by the kids and all is spent. She has told the atty that she wanted me as the POA and not to have any meetings with out her. He has had the meetings with her sister in law's boyfriend and her son with out her there and also told them that he thinks that her son should stay the POA. Does some one in the family need to be the POA?

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Reputation Level 15
The other Massachusetts attorney is correct. Your foster sister's husband cannot have a Power of Attorney because he is not alive. The appropriate person to bring a lawsuit for wrongful death on behalf of your foster sister's husband is the executor or administrator of his estate. I would advise you to speak with a new attorney.
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Christian K. Lassen II
Christian K. Lassen II, licensed in Pennsylvania and New Jersey

Reputation Level 16
I do not understand.

When a person dies, the POA dies with them.
Only a court appointed executor or administrator can have the power to pursue the claim.

Am I missing something?
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Christian K. Lassen II
Christian K. Lassen II, licensed in Pennsylvania and New Jersey

Reputation Level 16
I do practice in Massachusetts.
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Christian K. Lassen II
Christian K. Lassen II, licensed in Pennsylvania and New Jersey

Reputation Level 20
My observation is that there may be some very valid reason, given the wrongful death lawsuit, for the Power of Attorney to remain, as your foster sister's lawyer says, with the son. I do not see it from what little information you post, but if you think you have some rights about something that are being violated, then contact a lawyer in your locale, talk things through (many in your area might do a free consultation) and put your mind at ease.

Good luck to you.

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Reputation Level 20
I am having difficulty understanding your post. In my state a POA ends with death, and only the administrator ad prosequendum and/or executor of the estate can go forward with a wrongful death lawsuit. These suits are complicated and difficult to win, but many times the person who brings the suit has very good reasons for doing so. You might find my legal guide on medical malpractice helpful. If this is her husband, why did the money from the life insurance proceeds go to the children and not her? Was she a named beneficiary? Also the boyfriend has NO legal say in what is done with this estate. Why are her children managing something which she should be doing UNLESS she has been declared incompetent? She should sit down with a lawyer and get some answers.
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