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Who is entitled to an engagement ring after the engagement is broken off?

Chicago, IL |

Brother in law charged ring on credit card account, couple had a joint account and repaid brother in law after tax returns were received, female gave ring back after moving out of joint residence (3 months ago) and officially broke off relationship approx 1 month ago, female and family are now texting and calling male harassing him stating she paid for said ring.

Attorney Answers 3


  1. In Vann v. Vehrs, the Illinois Appellate Court stated that a previous ruling in the 1986 case Harris v. Dams meant that if an engagement was broken unilaterally by one party for any reason, that party forfeits all rights to the engagement ring


  2. The ring usually goes back to the giver (generally the man,) , but in this instance, if the purchaser was the woman, she should get the ring back. Your question is a little confusing but whoever paid for the ring should have the ring. If neither wants it, it should be sold and the proceeds go to whoever purchased it.


  3. Whoever actually paid for the ring should get it back.

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