Florida, Civil lawsuit...Defendant's lawyer set the date for mediation prior to the denfendant's release from custody by less than a month...and requested that the defendant be allowed to attend by phone due to his inability to travel. Can the Plaintiff (pro se) ask the Court to extend the mediation date so that the Plaintiff is forced to physically attend? Does the Defendant have the right to face his acuser? Why should the Defendant have to pay half the cost of a mediator SELECTED by the Plaintiff in a lawsuit full of false accusations? Can the Defendant request that the Plaintiff be responsible for all mediation costs? The Discovery process is not complete; can the Plaintiff ask for more time prior to mediation? How is this best accomplished?