You need an attorney in your corner on a case like this one. Perhaps you can find one who will allow you to do a lot of the legwork on the file and thereby keep the legal fees down.
First off, I'm questioning your legal experience if you do not know the difference between pro-bono (free legal services) and pro-se (handling a legal matter on one's own.) Second, you may have some legal experience but have you handled this specific type of matter before? Do you have the necessary training and experience to litigate on such matters and to case manage this through the entire process, start to finish? I'm definitely not touting the superiority of law school versus law office training but there is a reason why attorneys often recommend speaking to other attorneys about these things.
Your story is complex and you have, from your fact pattern above, concerns about the efficiency and effectiveness of counsel in your area. Still, it would be advisable to hire an attorney and work with them instead of proceeding on a malpractice claim on your own.
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There is an age old saying that I'm sure you've heard before: the lawyer who represents himself has a fool for a client. And you're not even a lawyer.
I don't mean to bring you down. But it is not a great idea. (Imagine how you would feel in court when the judge pointed out to you the difference between pro bono and pro se.)
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