i was with my ex for 12 years and had 3 children i decided i could no longer take his abuse and he wouldnt leave and the only way i could leave safely was to sign my children over to him 2 days later he went to jail for tring to stab our room mate so i came home imediately for kids but i had no job and soon water was shut of and gas also so i called the only people that my children knew and i new they would be safe with was his parents but now its been a year and i havent been in contact i guess im scared so what should i do i have 2 boys and a girl there ages are 9, 6, 2
You abandoned the children to a dangerous man,and then left him with his parents? Now you want to regain contact? You do not post if your ex is still in jail. You can set up a visitation program with the children either by asking the grandparents or through a court order. You will not get residential custody however if you cannot care for them.
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