We were never married and ever since we split my kids have been living with me. He has never attempted to visited them for almost four years. I am now married and have little girl and we all live like a happy family. I would like sole custody of my kids because we would like to take them out of the country for vacation next year but I have no idea how to contact their dad.
Family Law Attorney
You can ask the court for sole legal and physical custody. You will have to give notice to the bio-dad but there are ways to do this even when you don't know where he lives. And you may want to look at adoption of them by your husband later on. I suggest you get some legal advice about your specific circumstances.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
Absent a court order stating otherwise, you can take your children out of the country for vacation. If you want a court order, then file for custody. You will have to serve Dad with papers. You may also want to consider having your current husband adopt your children. http://www.courts.ca.gov/1185.htm
Real Estate Attorney
Consult with an attorney to assist with the process and provide legal representation to achieve your custody goals. Since you have provided for your two children solely, the court would likely order the your family situation remain undisturbed.
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