My son and daughter-in-law moved into my home as free guests until they choose to leave or I ask them to leave. They brought my daughter-in-law's sister, a teenager age 17 from another state without my permission or consent. I have asked my daughter-in-law to make arrangements for her to return as she was never invited by me. I am told she will go back to her home state next week. I also called her father, who acts as though he didn't know anything about her going back home. I informed him she is returning home and advised him to be at the airport to pick her up. The airline ticket is supposedly purchased by my daughter-in-law.
If the teenager isn't gone by the date she is supposed to be flying home, what is my remedy to get her out of my house? Again, she is an uninvited minor.
Ask your son and DIL to leave (taking sister) if they fail to abide by your wishes. Son or no son he has to respect your wishes in your home.
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Criminal Defense Attorney
You can contact the police and inform them of the situation. In some cases, the police will come out and ask her to leave. If she doesn't leave she can be arrested for trespass. There are probably other, civil remedies, but a 17 year old should leave if the police come out
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Criminal Defense Attorney
I suppose that you could initiate eviction proceedings or seek assistance from CPS.
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Estate Planning Attorney
You have a tough situation. She is technically not a tenant since everyone concedes she is a guest, but the longer she stays the more "tenant" rights she has. Same with your son and daughter-in-law. Hopefully she will in fact go back next week. If not you can try calling the police but it is highly unlikely the will do anything and you will probably be forced to go to landlord tenant court to get her out.
Admiralty / Maritime Attorney
I know that this is not the answer you are looking for, but my advice is to do your best to resolve the situation without involving the police or any lawyers. I have two reasons for saying this:
First, even if you two are like oil & water, the fact remains that she IS your daughter-in-law's sister. I would hate for you to create a family rift because of something that blows up to be bigger than it needs to be.
Second, the girl is a minor and a run-in with the police or the legal system is the type of thing that could negatively impact her at a critical developmental period in her life. (How many of us at that age were perfectly gracious guests or had a clue what responsibility meant?)
Now, with that said, if the problem is more severe than you have indicated in your post, and there is a threat of violence, or drugs, or other serious variables involved, then by all means call the police and inform them that she is trespassing.
But if at all possible, try to resolve the situation without involving the law.